It is just inevitable.
When you don't feel good about yourself, most of the time you have
no desire to make another person feel loved or to feel special.
Every day I make it my goal to make every person I come in contact
with to feel like a winner and have them leave me feeling
better about themselves than they did before I had talked to them.
As important as this goal is to me, I sometimes come up short
and truth be told, it is usually because I was distracted by the way I felt
about myself on that given day.
It is sad but true and I believe it happens to all of us.
If I am having a bad hair day or am feeling incompetent
in some area in my life
then it seems to distract me from thinking of things that I can
say or do to really make another's day.
It all comes down to planning my day and working on constant
self-improvement so I then can be prepared to step out of
my shell and serve others.
It is the simple things that make all the difference, like going to bed early
and waking up on time so that I am not rushed in the morning and have the
time that I need to get ready for the day.
It is the simple things like making sure I have my schedule for my day
and my room is clean when I leave my home so it is not constantly on my
shoulders weighing me down.
It is something as simple as having a goal I am working towards
so that I feel motivated and important.
What in your life is holding you back from reaching out to others?
Is there one thing in your life you can change to feel better about yourself
so you can then take that time to focus on saying "Hi" to
someone who looks like they could use a friend?
I challenge you to work on one thing to better your life this week.
It's like they say, you can't love another person until you love yourself!
Rules
Link up any post on how you have made a difference in your own life or in the lives of others.
or how someone has touched your life
(New or past posts welcome)
or how someone has touched your life
(New or past posts welcome)
Place the Make A Difference Monday button somewhere on your blog or your post
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